Maryl08
Active member
- Joined
- Jan 16, 2016
- Messages
- 45
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 12/2015
- Country
- US
- State
- WA
- City
- Seattle
My mom has progressed a lot within the past couple of weeks. She went from being able to get to the bathroom on her own with a walker to being able to only stand and we would push her in her wheelchair and help transfer her onto the toilet.
Now she is not able to stand anymore and my sister and I (we're pretty petite) are having a lot of trouble lifting her. She has also started to become anxious and yells at us for everything. She cannot talk because she is bulbar onset but she screams and we are starting to go a little crazy here. She screams every hour for us to get her up. Hospice and pressuring us to move her to a facility but I know that is not what my mom wants. I'd like to keep her home if possible.
How does everyone else do transferring, toileting, dealing with anxiety, etc?
Now she is not able to stand anymore and my sister and I (we're pretty petite) are having a lot of trouble lifting her. She has also started to become anxious and yells at us for everything. She cannot talk because she is bulbar onset but she screams and we are starting to go a little crazy here. She screams every hour for us to get her up. Hospice and pressuring us to move her to a facility but I know that is not what my mom wants. I'd like to keep her home if possible.
How does everyone else do transferring, toileting, dealing with anxiety, etc?