Thank you all for your support. The strength through prayers, wishes, meeting and greetings has truly sustained my household and myself. The busy-ness that surrounds a death certainly keeps you getting up in the morning, contributing to the community and world at large so that you cannot get lost in sorrow. You still carry it with you, but as you pass through your day, there is always someone there to help you carry it so the burden isn't larger than you can manage. We are no where near finished the tasks at hand, but the beautiful end will be several little trips as a family together to take a little bit of Tommy back to his favourite places in Ontario. The hunt camps are all in agreement that some of him may be scattered there, he was a naturalist and giving back to the land would be his joy, and our pleasure.