I still can't believe my husband is this way! But it is what it is, just like they tell you with ALS.
How do you take over the bill paying without causing WWIII? My husband keeps changing the passwords for accounts indiscriminately, without telling me. The water was turned off last week and the electric was about to be turned off! I just had to go ahead and pay to catch them up and hope he hadn't done the same, as he would not communicate with me after my inquiries via email and call to my SIL (he's staying with her and she relayed the message - he can't talk).
I have thought a lot since he's been gone. I've had a chance to remember him as he was (mentally). It breaks my heart. And to know our son doesn't remember that...sigh...
Ah, well.
How do you take over the bill paying without causing WWIII? My husband keeps changing the passwords for accounts indiscriminately, without telling me. The water was turned off last week and the electric was about to be turned off! I just had to go ahead and pay to catch them up and hope he hadn't done the same, as he would not communicate with me after my inquiries via email and call to my SIL (he's staying with her and she relayed the message - he can't talk).
I have thought a lot since he's been gone. I've had a chance to remember him as he was (mentally). It breaks my heart. And to know our son doesn't remember that...sigh...
Ah, well.