Gina, I am so happy you have the dnr. I really can't say, don't worry when the time gets here. Of course you have to worry, and hurt some. I hate to use these words, but what else is there to say? Am I supposed to gurantee you that you are going to be okay? I'd be lying. It is the natural thing to do, to hurt and cry. Let me tell you Gina, it is good to cry. It relieves you. The thing is, just think of the peace that your husbandis going to encounter. When I witnessed my son taking his last breath, I felt my heart breaking in a million pieces. Of course I cried. I cried with him, held him, kissed him, prayed with him. As I hovered over him, I felt like I was lifted, and experienced a feeling of comfoert. A feeling of letting go, and allowing our Father to take over. I thought to myself, "You are in good hands. It is time to say our good byes." Right then I knew he was gone forever, and to let it take place in peace. Be strong, turn to your Father. He will be there to comfort you. I hope I can be of a little help. Keep us posted, and let's say if it's time for your husband to depart I hope he goes peacefully1 May God bless you, and your husband. Gina, take care of yourself!
Irma