jayswife
Active member
- Joined
- Feb 11, 2016
- Messages
- 71
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 04/2014
- Country
- US
- State
- ct
- City
- stratford
Is this normal? Jay says he can't swallow his spit so I have to suction him every few minutes throughout the day. I don't mean to sound selfish but this is making me crazy. Before ALS Jay was a always a spitter and it drove me crazy. If he was outside he would spit nonstop. So I'm wondering if this is normal with ALS or if its worse because he was always a spitter. The only time I don't have to suction him every few minutes is when he's laying down which I don't get. If he can swallow his spit when he lays down then why can't he when he's sitting up? Is there anything we can do for this? The other day he told me that its better to be suctioned when he's sitting straight up rather than when he's in his recliner - which isn't really back far, more like his feet are up and he's reclined a little. I said if that's the case and I have to sit you up every time you need to be suctioned then I'm going to end up in a mental institution. I know, it' was wrong to say that I cried and apologized after. It's just this is becoming way too much than I can handle. I feel like I'm about to break.