This is telling me I should borrow a Hoyer lift from ALSA so we can practice while I can still communicate well, given that I have had 5 compression fractures of the spine, and even before those, I was described by my mother as a "hothouse lily" or "princess on a pea."
The pillow descriptions remind me of my hospitalization after the worst fracture. The bed was very wide. I couldn't get comfortable enough to sleep unless the nurse laid extra pillows right across the bed to lock me into place.
Jimi, a video would be really helpful, if you're up for that.
The problem I'm having right now is that ALSA needs a letter from my PT saying that the Hoyer lift is safe for me. The PT is hesitating, not because she doesn't think it's safe -- actually I'm not quite sure why.
Tomswife, now that you've got more responsive providers, can you get an order for some skilled nursing visits to help you troubleshoot some of these things? When I left the hospital after that first nasty fracture, someone at the hospital had arranged for a hospital bed and some home health aide visits for a few months and PT in my home. The car insurance paid for everything. (Then, as soon as they closed the case, they kicked me out!)
Hopefully your health insurance would pay for the services.