I rely on this site to help get me through, too. My problem was that I had 3 local docs telling me that all my symptoms pointed to ALS. They sent me to the clinic to confirm their suspicions, and the AlS specialists said, quote, “I promise you this is either MS or Lupus.” Well, the spinal fluid analysis was clear, so he revised his prediction. He now says it is neuro-muscular, and I may stay the same as I am but I should prepare myself for getting worse. All of his pronouncements did not exactly make me feel warm and fuzzy. And he never should have promised me I had a less life-threatening disease, because it is very hard to shake the feeling, lo these 24 months later, that something is really wrong
Coming here helps me maintain perspective. I see Rich with his new baby, Liz who takes care of 4 kids and a job every day, AL who maintains a great sense of warmth and humor, and I meet all of you PALS and CALS who live your daily lives with never a “poor me.”
I am grateful to you all.
But there is a grain of truth in what Wright says. Some people are more anxious after coming here. I see the new baby and think, “Wow. What love.” Others are reminded that, because they twitch, they may not get to see their kids grow up. I think we cannot change this viewpoint. There will always be people who see the glass half empty. I guess we can make an effort not to feed into their fears, but at the end of the day, they will be about as happy as they make up their minds to be. JMO