My husband will get a stairlift in 4 weeks. In the meantime bedrooms and washrooms are upstairs and he gets upset if I cannot help him up 14 stairs every night, he is wheelchair bound. I feel very guilty when I cannot help him but I think it is very unsafe for him, and my right leg and arms are giving out on me. I am 117 lbs and feel exhausted the next day when I help him. I prefer him to stay downstairs if I don't have a strong arm to help but he doesn't like that how can I let him understand?