Allie1987
Member
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2023
- Messages
- 19
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 01/2023
- Country
- US
- State
- VA
- City
- Arlington
My PALS (who is my best friend) called me today totally distraught. He got an email that said SSA denied his application for SSDI.
Neither of us can figure out what happened, because as far as he knows he never even submitted it! He was working on it online but was not done. Maybe he hit “submit” by mistake. Still, it does not make sense that they denied it.
It’s rough when he gets in moods like this because he basically will just yell at me for 10, 15, 20 minutes - however long it take him to run out of steam. He is actually not yelling AT me - he is just venting his anger at SSA/the world/the damn disease etc in my presence. But it is still a bit hard to take. Yet I want to provide a sounding board for him. I know the past six months have been a nightmare for him (diagnosed in January), so I understand why he would be at his wit’s end.
I am ok, but just wanted to come here to vent to all of you in turn.
I finally talked him down, reminded him to contact his lawyer, urged him to also contact his representative in Congress (which he has done), and basically told him over and over that we will work this out and he will get his benefits. The irony is that I used to work for SSA so I know this stuff pretty well. And even I can’t understand how they screwed this up so badly.
Anyway my heart is breaking a little for him, so I wanted to check in. Thanks to you all for being there!
Neither of us can figure out what happened, because as far as he knows he never even submitted it! He was working on it online but was not done. Maybe he hit “submit” by mistake. Still, it does not make sense that they denied it.
It’s rough when he gets in moods like this because he basically will just yell at me for 10, 15, 20 minutes - however long it take him to run out of steam. He is actually not yelling AT me - he is just venting his anger at SSA/the world/the damn disease etc in my presence. But it is still a bit hard to take. Yet I want to provide a sounding board for him. I know the past six months have been a nightmare for him (diagnosed in January), so I understand why he would be at his wit’s end.
I am ok, but just wanted to come here to vent to all of you in turn.
I finally talked him down, reminded him to contact his lawyer, urged him to also contact his representative in Congress (which he has done), and basically told him over and over that we will work this out and he will get his benefits. The irony is that I used to work for SSA so I know this stuff pretty well. And even I can’t understand how they screwed this up so badly.
Anyway my heart is breaking a little for him, so I wanted to check in. Thanks to you all for being there!