Sammantha
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- Aug 11, 2007
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Its been hard for awhile, but i cant do it at all. I woke this morning and my alarm to the left went off. I went to hit snooze with my right arm which requires a full swing.. i couldnt at all..... coupled with teenage boy serious issues i have lost my inner strength again. When my mom and stepdad found out what i had was progressive and not curable they barely come around, and most know my husband works out of town everyday but sat and sun. In November he will be doing a job in Connecticut and wont be here at all. Their psychiatrist who is mine feels i a smothering mom and their dad is disconnected...i have to stop badgering them, i cant make up for their dads absence. My husbands boss does not even pay more for doing these far away jobs and sends my husband because he is salary..money is such an issue my boys want to get a job...i keep telling them school is there job....plus the gas money for a few hours on the weekend would not equal out......they get mad but they are too young 12 and 15. I get my last disability check this month....Social security deemed me disabled from my previous job but because i am educated i can still work. Is anyone hiring an emotionally unstable person, who is losing muscle and cant work when spasms leave neck or legs unmovable? Wahh Wahhh....guess i just became part of those 47%. I keep fighting to all these places talking about my disabilities and in my mind i can only cope by ignoring it, so right now with my new review for disability its like trauma after trauma....Last weekend family visited and i had the best time, although my legs and hips kept me at snails pace... The only time it hurt me was when we left a festival and my kids were far ahead, my sis and brother in law holding hands far ahead, while my husband walked beside them..... They were talking having a good time and i tried hard to keep up, but eventually crowds walked around me and i could no longer see them. A block from the car my sis in law was like where is Sammantha? They stopped and all stared as i caught up...... now that may not seem sad but it was to me. I pray i get over this depressive hump as i have had others. I pray for all of you as well. Besides this forum i am all alone in this journey....i think of it as hell sometimes but i know it is a journey of lessons that i MUST overcome.