- Joined
- Nov 18, 2014
- Messages
- 4,887
- Reason
- PALS
- Diagnosis
- 08/2015
- Country
- US
- State
- South
- City
- The Beach
Sometimes I feel in a rush to get things done while I can still do them. It's almost like I have two personalities. One just wants to sit around, eat, surf the Internet, and watch TV. The other one wants to publish again, go on a weekend retreat, and buy that ticket to visit cousins up North.
I'm also having a hard time being around some of my friends. They abuse their bodies and take their health for granted. I sat at a card table tonight and I was the only person at the table not overweight. Three were morbidly obese. Three out of six had type 2 diabetes. Four out of six had very serious heart issues. These are relatively new friends. The friends I played sports with, hiked with, scuba & traveled with have pretty much moved on because they're still doing all that stuff.
I really miss my old life. I only regret I worked too hard and played too little.
I'm still very grateful for the things I can do but it is hard to give up those things I loved so much.
I think a huge part of it is I have no family or no significant other (that is by choice.) I think it would be a lot easier if I were surrounded by kids, grandkids, and a large extended family. Maybe.
I decided to sponsor another child in Haiti through Compassion International. At least it feels like I'm doing something for someone.
I'm also having a hard time being around some of my friends. They abuse their bodies and take their health for granted. I sat at a card table tonight and I was the only person at the table not overweight. Three were morbidly obese. Three out of six had type 2 diabetes. Four out of six had very serious heart issues. These are relatively new friends. The friends I played sports with, hiked with, scuba & traveled with have pretty much moved on because they're still doing all that stuff.
I really miss my old life. I only regret I worked too hard and played too little.
I'm still very grateful for the things I can do but it is hard to give up those things I loved so much.
I think a huge part of it is I have no family or no significant other (that is by choice.) I think it would be a lot easier if I were surrounded by kids, grandkids, and a large extended family. Maybe.
I decided to sponsor another child in Haiti through Compassion International. At least it feels like I'm doing something for someone.