faithandlove
Distinguished member
- Joined
- May 22, 2016
- Messages
- 174
- Reason
- PALS
- Diagnosis
- 06/2016
- Country
- US
- State
- NV
- City
- Reno
I am progressing fast, and my CALS is my husband who is disabled and needs hip replacement surgery. Currently, he can still help me.
I have a lady who comes Mon-Fri for 1 hour to help get me cleaned up and dressed.
This is what is bothering me - if my husband gets the surgery, how will he be taken care of and how will I be taken care of?
Do I increase the hours for a caregiver? I do have long-term care insurance and a Respite grant. Should I be placed into a nursing home?
My daughter is working full-time and has three small children, and my son also works fill-time and has one son. His wife is currently going to the police academy. They want to help, but they are overwhelmed already.
If I get help at home, I feel invaded. I always did everything, and I'm not good at delegating. I feel like I should be the hostess in my home.
Please let me know what you have done when the ALS progressed.
I got used to the 1 hour of care, but I cannot imagine full-time.
Thanks,
Deb
I have a lady who comes Mon-Fri for 1 hour to help get me cleaned up and dressed.
This is what is bothering me - if my husband gets the surgery, how will he be taken care of and how will I be taken care of?
Do I increase the hours for a caregiver? I do have long-term care insurance and a Respite grant. Should I be placed into a nursing home?
My daughter is working full-time and has three small children, and my son also works fill-time and has one son. His wife is currently going to the police academy. They want to help, but they are overwhelmed already.
If I get help at home, I feel invaded. I always did everything, and I'm not good at delegating. I feel like I should be the hostess in my home.
Please let me know what you have done when the ALS progressed.
I got used to the 1 hour of care, but I cannot imagine full-time.
Thanks,
Deb