Notme - or anyone else........... I know my mom hasn't done the SSDI paperwork. She is still working and has insurance. Should she also do the SSDI? I have no idea. There is still a lot that we have to do and look into. VA help, equipment that will be needed at some point. I think that after we get this visit under our belt on Thursday she'll start helping me help her. Right now she is still in denial and I think she really expects UCLA to tell her something other than ALS although from what I got from her neurologist, it can't be anything else. Ugh, this is so overwhelming. Thanks all. I'll be back later that's for sure.