Chryl, the biggest thing on your plate is being there for your boys. take deep breaths.......thinking of you.
Sherry, I have a very low tolerance these days for whiners, the pathetic little things that people get worked up over like it is the end of the world just chaps my a$$. I have to choose my words carefully these days! early in Steve's diagnosis I found myself in the middle of nonsense between my mother and grown daughter, hurt feelings stuff and tears over it like it was the end of the world. I lost my chit on them, mostly mom, because ridiculousness had sent mom to tears .......and ended up with my very concerned father trailing me to the car, he was the only one who "got it".
I work a little harder on not biting head off these days, lol