Timshelper
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- Nov 11, 2003
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Small town living got ta love or do you. i was tlaking to my eldest daughter tonight and she asked me if i was miving in with tim and she is happy for both of us. then she broke the news to me that she was talking to her stepmother and she cant understand why i would be moving in with tim unless i had an ulterior motive and i wasn't qualified to even be there. he needed someone who knows what they are doing. brandi explained to her that home care comes in 3 times a day and i was there mostly for the nights. her father never said a word except that tim wa his best freind and he just cant bring himself to go see him. i am totallly furious brandi and her landed up in a big fight until brandi just let it go before it totallly got out of hand. she did say she was sure if anything was crucial and he needed hospital care i would be on the phone calliing 911 asap. the other thing is tim has nothing but tons of records which i sure dont want and i'm not even bringing in any of my own things so he will feel comfortable in just his own surroundings. am i missing something here and i not qualified to do this job? i have been on this forum for over 2 years finding out about this disease and researching it plus i have an in with most of the drs in this city and if i dont get answers i will keep trying until i do. what else do i need to know. the disease will progress and yes there are going to be some very hard times and i may have to do things that i never imagined but i'm not there yet. the thing that really gets me is that i just finally accepted the fact myself that i was moving in. i guess she figues a professional should be doing this job but tim does not want to go intoa home and he cant afford 24 around the clock caregiving. jeez now i'm afraid to even bring up the will. has anyone else come across such ludicris thinking? are other people going to think the same way? i want to phone and tell exactly her what i think about the whole situation but i may get carried away but how dare she even have thought like that when they have had nothing to do with him in months.well i've vented enough goodnight everybody.
kim
als about loving someone
kim
als about loving someone