- Apr 18, 2021
- East Hartford
We are in Connecticut. My mom can’t walk or move her arms. My dad is 73. He can’t do this anymore on his own. He is just not trained in it and he gets so tired he gets careless. I (daughter) can’t lose my job. I am already not sleeping because I have to work all night to be able to take care of her and work. My dad has lost 30lb so far from not having time to eat and the stress. We have Medicare plus. I have read that Medicare can pay for at least some home care. Does that home care do transfers? We just are at a loss. What do we do? We need concrete advice about care and all are we getting is “you need to hire help”. We know we need help, but we don’t know how to get the right help and we don’t know how to get it without going totally bankrupt. Thanks in advance.