patientkiwi
Member
- Joined
- Jul 22, 2019
- Messages
- 17
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 07/2013
- Country
- NZ
- State
- SI
- City
- Invercargill
Hi Sue He doesn't have any problem sleeping - I do and that is part of my problem because lack of sleep makes me so exhausted on top of everything else. I am trying some natural remedies for sleep to see how I go. I will keep that suggestion up my sleeve as an option but it would feel wrong to deceive him. I am going to have a discussion with him this weekend to see if I can make him see that we need to balance his needs against mine and that if I am to continue looking after him, I need to have some respite breaks and I also need him to stop using me as a whipping boy - not that I will use that term in the discussion but you will understand what I mean. Will post an update after the discussion to let you know what happens. Thanks for your support - I have been overwhelmed with the amount of support I have received on this forum already!Kiwi - Tillie aka affected has a link in her profile to a very good article about FTD. I’m not good at linking things like Laurie is, so maybe she will come back and do that too. I really believe you would benefit from reading that article.
Another suggestion, and I see you are in NZ, so not sure how things work there, but could you call his Dr when you are away from home and explain what’s going on. Then have him make a suggestion, even calling the drug something other than what it might be. He may be able to get your husband to take something. Maybe anti depressant isn’t even the right med, but he might have something for aggression he could suggest. Does your husband have any trouble sleeping? Maybe the Dr could say it’s to help with sleep or something like that. I hate to go around our PALs backs but some times desperate times call for desperate measures, at least at first.
I’m around if you need me.
Hugs