lms9258
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Nov 4, 2009
- Messages
- 112
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 07/2009
- Country
- US
- State
- Wisconsin
- City
- Milwaukee
I realize I am doing the same things. I feel like I'm in a very similar situation. pbush is absolutely correct. Easier said than done though. Who will do it all? How does one just STOP caring for their mom, in order to take care of one's self? I have no answers. I know one thing to be true...I did not "create" any part of this life that ALS/Dementia has literally wreaked havoc on...caused pain, sorrow, extreme stress, uncertainty--need I go on? I wish for you (and myself), for mercy. Our mother's also deserve to finally leave this Living Hell! Don't mean to offend anyone. Also don't want my mom to go--but her quality of life is close to zero. You are an AWESOME person Dianna, I'm honored to have gotten to "know' you. Keep doing your best, as will I. This rotten disease is the "one" that causes "the ever next crises to appear", not your adrenaline. Please let me know how that "coasting" goes for you. If it works, I'll give it a try too.
Laura
Laura