- Joined
- Feb 23, 2014
- Messages
- 2,636
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 01/2014
- Country
- US
- State
- NC
- City
- Littleton
I remember my husband telling me early in the course of this disease that when he could no longer feed himself our days of eating out together would be over. He said I should go, but he would not be fed in public.
Last night, for the first time, he allowed me to finish feeding him his dinner as his arms just gave out.
This morning we made the effort to go out for breakfast, and he asked me to finish feeding him--this time in public.
Several tough weeks have lead up to this, but as with so many other early declarations, he has backed off of his position once we are faced with the reality of giving up on something he enjoys because of and outdated matter of pride.
Jeff Long, if you are peaking in at us from your place in heaven, thank you for that meal in DC that the four of us so enjoyed, where you allowed your lovely wife to feed you as we talked and laughed.
May be give another PALS the gift you gave us.
Becky
Last night, for the first time, he allowed me to finish feeding him his dinner as his arms just gave out.
This morning we made the effort to go out for breakfast, and he asked me to finish feeding him--this time in public.
Several tough weeks have lead up to this, but as with so many other early declarations, he has backed off of his position once we are faced with the reality of giving up on something he enjoys because of and outdated matter of pride.
Jeff Long, if you are peaking in at us from your place in heaven, thank you for that meal in DC that the four of us so enjoyed, where you allowed your lovely wife to feed you as we talked and laughed.
May be give another PALS the gift you gave us.
Becky