This year, for the first time ever, all of my PALS family wanted to come over. They do their own thing and get all buzzed/drunk, then want to come over. I had no problem saying NO. YOU IDIOTS! what are they even thinking?! It is NOT fun to be in our situation, and then to have you come over all partied up. WHAT ARE YOU EVEN THINKING? I said NO NO and again NO. I hope no one was offended, but again, REALLY? I don't understand some people. My hubby totally agreed with me and it was a very awesome Christmas...with us, our children and all the Love of God and family!