Massage chair or table and other thoughts

[Pkmado]

Phil loves a massage. I am going to purchase a table or chair. I am not sure which. P thinks a chair as he will be able to get in an out of it better since his legs are good. I think a table for total relaxation. of course it is difficult for him to get on and off. We have a retired nurse as a friend and neighbor who gives him massages on occasion as do I which are not nearly as good as hers but our friend will give me instructions as well as a DVD. Any input on which one is a better choice from experience? Thanks.
Things r of course becoming increasingly difficult. P does not use the new lift chair. (I however find it very comfortable and convienient.) I don't understand how he cannot want to use it as opposed to sitting on a loveseat and holding his head up with his hand. I can only think that when his arm goes completely he will have to use it which is soon. He operates the use of one arm with the other. A great deal of flopping around to get things to work. I can only make suggestions on how to make him more comfortable. Then just sit back and wait and hope he takes advantage of those suggestions. Usually does not.
I totally get missing your partner. That person you so enjoyed in your marriage changes as do you. Still love, just different.
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