MJT
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Jun 27, 2022
- Messages
- 195
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 00/2021
- Country
- US
- City
- no
I listened to advice and hired help, even though we didn't want it, because I was worried we'd get into an emergency situation or that I didn't know what was best for me. I did research and asked friends for recommendations. The "best" was available 2 days a week, which was perfect. Though they are wildly expensive, I was willing to pay and have a tiny part of this LIVING HELL in place and under control. This morning I straightened up, moved a chair so they could take a break in a separate room, and ordered $150 worth of groceries so the caregiver would have plenty of lunch options tomorrow. PALS could barely stay in the shower chair today, and we both cried over that. I began to think maybe people were right and that we would need help. Right after his shower, the caregiver called to say they were sorry, but the other family they are working with wants more hours, and they won't be able to work for us after all. I am falling completely apart. I don't know what to do. I don't know where else to look for a caregiver. I only know of agencies to avoid. I am so sad and scared of the future.