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My father is the eldest of 3 brothers. My youngest uncle passed from ALS around age 48 after developing symptoms two years prior. It was an awful experience for everyone involved and heart wrenching.
My other uncle has been going into cognitive decline for the past 3 years (starting around age 57). His family recently took him to the neurologist and he was diagnosed with FTD and I believe ALS is starting to show now.
Once I heard this I knew it must be genetic as the odds of it happening twice is so unlikely. It’s all very new and I’ve wanted to give his immediate family time to come to terms so I haven’t discussed, but my sister talked to my cousin and I believe he was diagnosed with C9orf72.
No one else in our family aside from my two uncles have been confirmed positive. My grandfather passed at age 78 but did develop bad dementia which probably really started showing around age 70/71. My grandmother is still alive and healthy in her 80s. I asked about other family and was told no one ever showed any signs but we did have relatives generations before pass early from heart issues.
My father is 63 and currently 6 years older than my uncle was when he first started showing systems. He’s healthy and sharp as ever with zero symptoms. At first he didn’t want to get tested - but once my siblings and I got him on the phone and explained since we’re all beginning to start our own families and that we must know, he did agree.
I know he will have to be slowly badgered until he goes and gets the test (he will eventually-but he lives on the other side of the country and we will have to be persistent).
We don’t want to get tested before him because of the insurance implications that can arise if we do test positive.
Since this all came to light I am having the worst anxiety imaginable. It’s all I can think about. Any slight cramp, tingle, stumble, or stutter just makes me think could be a symptom. I’m only 33 and I know even if I have the gene it’s unlikely to show yet…but I don’t know how I can get by with waiting for my father to actually get his results.
Just looking for some slight reassurance in all this? I know the 50/50 chances of it being passed down…is it fair to assume since my father is 16 years older than when our first uncle showed symptoms / 6 years older than my current uncle he is likely to be in the clear? Would the fact that we don’t have a large history of family members showing signs of this disease mean it maybe isn’t as prevalent?
I feel selfish posting here when so many are actually going through this-but it’s just crushing me right now.
Thanks
My other uncle has been going into cognitive decline for the past 3 years (starting around age 57). His family recently took him to the neurologist and he was diagnosed with FTD and I believe ALS is starting to show now.
Once I heard this I knew it must be genetic as the odds of it happening twice is so unlikely. It’s all very new and I’ve wanted to give his immediate family time to come to terms so I haven’t discussed, but my sister talked to my cousin and I believe he was diagnosed with C9orf72.
No one else in our family aside from my two uncles have been confirmed positive. My grandfather passed at age 78 but did develop bad dementia which probably really started showing around age 70/71. My grandmother is still alive and healthy in her 80s. I asked about other family and was told no one ever showed any signs but we did have relatives generations before pass early from heart issues.
My father is 63 and currently 6 years older than my uncle was when he first started showing systems. He’s healthy and sharp as ever with zero symptoms. At first he didn’t want to get tested - but once my siblings and I got him on the phone and explained since we’re all beginning to start our own families and that we must know, he did agree.
I know he will have to be slowly badgered until he goes and gets the test (he will eventually-but he lives on the other side of the country and we will have to be persistent).
We don’t want to get tested before him because of the insurance implications that can arise if we do test positive.
Since this all came to light I am having the worst anxiety imaginable. It’s all I can think about. Any slight cramp, tingle, stumble, or stutter just makes me think could be a symptom. I’m only 33 and I know even if I have the gene it’s unlikely to show yet…but I don’t know how I can get by with waiting for my father to actually get his results.
Just looking for some slight reassurance in all this? I know the 50/50 chances of it being passed down…is it fair to assume since my father is 16 years older than when our first uncle showed symptoms / 6 years older than my current uncle he is likely to be in the clear? Would the fact that we don’t have a large history of family members showing signs of this disease mean it maybe isn’t as prevalent?
I feel selfish posting here when so many are actually going through this-but it’s just crushing me right now.
Thanks