texastc thank you. We would prefer you call the spade!
I feel awful asking, but isn't TT husband caring for her too?
If you can spare the time to give some regular short updates on this thread about how things are going it will be enormously helpful to so many. Yes it's only one person's experience, it is so different for others. But that's why any amount you can write about the journey of adjusting to and living with will be so important. We don't have many vented PALS on this site, and so far there have been some very different experiences for each one. So the more information we build up here of the way it may be for each person, the more help we are to future PALS until we hope one day this site is abandoned because a cure is found. Until then, we are the best source of the truth about living with this monster there is.
Give TT a big gentle hug for me!