Fiancee
Member
- Joined
- Jul 10, 2012
- Messages
- 19
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 04/2012
- Country
- US
- State
- FL
- City
- Hollywood
My fiancee was diagnosed on April 30 2012 with ALS. It was a torture during the tests and a torture after the diagnosis. I live a constant uncertanty. His behavior has changed, and changes constantely. I want to be understanding, but everywhere I move there is pain. His family wants to have the "docs" ready, and I feel I am in a limbo with lots of responsability, compasion, and dedication to him. My kids from my previous marriage are very concerned about my mental health. He still moves and drives, and he is eating, the problem is his speech and losing weight. Doctor said that his type is slow. Lately, I found him going to the internet in the dating sites. I told him that hurts me and our relationship, and I suggested to delete his profile, and he did it but he cried a lot. I go to work and feed him at lunch, but in the afternoon he goes to the movies almost every day. I wonder if he goes with somebody from the internet! I am getting lost in this situation.