hopealive
Active member
- Joined
- Sep 22, 2006
- Messages
- 93
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Country
- US
- State
- OR
- City
- Albany
Gigi,
You are sooo not alone. My mother is getting to a similar position as your's and most days I am anything but, composed. Please know many of us struggle to be strong, supportive and helpful all the while feeling as if we are about to loose it. I have lost it, even in front of my mom and I think it actually was healing for both of us. I just screamed this isn't fair, it wasn't supposed to be this way! Mom agreed, cried a little, we hugged and pretty soon we were laughing. I know it sounds crazy doesn't it?
Always around to talk. Lean on us, especially when you reach that point. Also, I pray constantly for peace for mom and us all.
Love,
Holly
You are sooo not alone. My mother is getting to a similar position as your's and most days I am anything but, composed. Please know many of us struggle to be strong, supportive and helpful all the while feeling as if we are about to loose it. I have lost it, even in front of my mom and I think it actually was healing for both of us. I just screamed this isn't fair, it wasn't supposed to be this way! Mom agreed, cried a little, we hugged and pretty soon we were laughing. I know it sounds crazy doesn't it?
Always around to talk. Lean on us, especially when you reach that point. Also, I pray constantly for peace for mom and us all.
Love,
Holly