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You live in the medical capitol of the US. Johns Hopkins is the place you want to be. That is where the MDA/ALS Association is is. Johns Hopkins is and has been ranked number 1 for over 20 years in Neurology and many other fields. I would have your Dad's PCP call and see if they could see your father. And believe me when I say, June is not that far off to wait for an appointment. I waited 6 months to get into the Mayo Clinic.

I know you mentioned you were military, but you didn't mention you're father. If he is Walter Reed is just a little bit aways from you. Not a bad second opinion if he is military. But like the others said, slow down and take a deep breath. One day is not going to make a difference. Good Luck and let us know how it goes.

I'm very familiar with Maryland, so you can always pm me if you would like.
 
With family history and his seemingly fast progression with fitting symptoms I completely understand your panic.

While getting the diagnosis is not going to change the immediate medical path for your father, it will likely change every other aspect of life for your family dramatically so you are justified wanting answers sooner than later. Unfortunately everyone on this site has gone through the waiting game.

One of my biggest frustrations was it took several months to get my mom's ALS diagnosis (despite in your face symptoms) and we felt like we lost valuable time since she only lived a couple months after diagnosis.

If you make enough phone calls there's a good chance you can get the appointment moved up especially if he is losing weight because he can't eat. My mom was a fast progresser and nobody ever seemed to get the urgency of our situation.

Best of luck to you.
 
Tell your parents that you need an open and honest dialog about what's going on so that you can provide the best support for them as possible. I understand your frustration as I hate being kept in the dark. I find it easier to cope with the truth no matter how "bad" it may seem to others. Unfortunately everyone has their own comfort level when sharing and dealing with serious health issues. Wishing you the best during this very difficult time. Try to stay calm and carry on.
 
I thank you all who have replied for the information and suggestions in reference to my fathers situation. I would first like to say I am very relaxed and calm now. I was fed alot of information from the doctor and both my parents, then my aunt and it kind of just sent my head spinning. I know that having answers today would be good, but I now know that those answers will come in time. I can not prepare for the future by overreacting today. As far as his status, His VA paperwork will be filed soon, he had never needed to use The VA cause he had never been sick before. So he never even thought about it. My mother works for the State and her benefits were better than what the US government was offering 30 years ago when my father first starting working for the government. So he has been on her insurance for their entire marriage, however, in light of the current situation and what the future may hold, that is also getting changed.

His appt is June 18, at the University of Maryland, with Dr. Porter. He had already had an appt at Johns Hopkins but they referred him to the U of Md to get this other doctors opinion. This will be the third neurologists. They have done numerous blood labs, and other tests and are slowly eliminating diseases that dont qualify. A nerve conduction test was done, but the results of that test were abnormal, thats all the first doctor said. And carpel tunnel in his wrist which he has had for years. Other than that, the first neurologists said nothing and referred him to the Neurologist At Franklin square, who looked at the results and conducted other tests to eliminate a few other neurological diseases, such as early onset of dimmentia, parkinsons and such things as those issues. That doctor is the one who stated that she believes its MND, however told him that it may be too early to determine which type. She then consulted with the Neurologists at the University of MD, Dr.Porter who is an ALS/MND specialists. He has reviewed my fathers entire case and made an appt for late july, however told my father that he would put his name on the cancellation lists, at the top, so he could be seen asap. one person cancelled which put him in a new slot for the june 18th appt. So far I feel that everything is being done in a reasonable order, it just seemed for a while that a few of these doctors were clueless to his situation, that or they were protecting him and the family by not bring up the ALS/MND diagnosis until they had eliminated more possibilities. That I can respect.

And to TOTO DOROTHY, Walter Reed is shutting down, It was one of the installations on the chopping block for government realignment. Most of that base is gone, that hospital should be completly shut down within the next 6 months, if it has not already!

I think me and my father will go fishing this weekend, its time for us to have a few hours of bonding, we both work astronomical hours every week. Even though he wont anymore, the doctor told him tuesday to stop working so much and to conserve his muscle strength.

And Ill mention the swallowing test to the doctor on his follow up appt with his Franklin square neurologist on the 12th of april. That should have been done immediately I believe the second he second he sometimes is having trouble eating now. I got my Fiance, who happens to be a RN, in my ear too. She will be my strength through this entire process, so I can be strong for my parents and my sister. I wont have enough strength for myself. As some of ya'll seen two days ago. Thanks again for listening and replying with much needed information and suggestions.
 
21,

Do you mean the new hospital unit that they built to replace the old one? Because I believe they were keeping the same name for the new facility.

Please keep us updated on your family's progress.
 
Fish more, work less! Good luck!
 
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