Thanks for all the kind words. OK I'm going to vent now. I am dealing with a number of injuries...multiple bruises on my arms, legs, shoulder and chest (shoulder strap), tweaked back, stiff neck, and likely small fracture in my sternum. Dealing with multiple calls from various insurance agencies including my own adjuster who wanted me to tell him what the other car was or get the information from the police (it was white as I recall...then I was taken away in an ambulance). Is that not your job? Oh, and the cat scan on my neck in the emergency room also showed a growth in my thyroid so let's add another worry to my ever-growing list. Going in next week for an ultrasound on that.
Yesterday I spent the day taking my bike to the bike shop (needed help loading and unloading it) in my PALS' truck that he never let me drive before, and then picking up a rental car, among the other CALS duties. The bike is damaged, and all of the carbon components will need to be replaced, but I'm hoping the frame is OK. I won't be able to ride it for a while anyway. Then the sprinklers broke, and I had to call someone to come and look at them. Of course the minute he came over they started working again.
I was thinking if I wasn't a CALS that my husband would probably be taking care of me. The rental car clerk asked my why I wasn't at home resting. Should I explain it to you? Last night there were only 2 wakeups so I guess that's better than most nights. This morning I got up, made coffee and breakfast for my PALS, served him breakfast (he can still hold a fork and eat for now), got his vitamins, moved the bipap into the TV room and set it up, cleaned the hoses, made the bed, cleaned up after breakfast, did the nasal spray and the cough assist, and gave him a bath. After bath, lunch. Then I paid his bills and did his deposit slip; I'm off to the post office and bank next. Then it's ROM and then dinner. He also has been somewhat more critical of late as well, guess I'm not doing everything correctly. Thankful for pain pills.
I guess I should stay off Facebook, right? I looked this morning and got a notice that I had been mentioned in a post. The post was from a woman who hasn't been in touch in 9 months at all, but she and her husband came over on Thursday to visit my PALS (not knowing I had been in an accident) and brought dinner. I appreciate it, but honestly, let's now get on Facebook and talk about how my husband needs help now and congratulate ourselves for being so giving???? I suppose dinner once in 9 months is helpful but I am the one who is doing everything.
OK done ranting. The accident injuries will heal. Hope the thyroid is nothing.
V