Hi,
my partner was diagnosed with Als in march, she is 48, her mum passed at the age of 43 when she was 17 looking after her along with her dad. The trauma of that loss and the fear of getting that illness has been there for all these years and now its happening to her. she has deteriorated very quickly and now is in a wheelchair, she has lost everything, speech,...totally disabled. ive been the main caregiver on my own since this started and now i feel completely lost, scared, burnout. i dont have any purpose in life, any drive, any dream, she is all my life, the love of my life, i don't have my family around ( im european and we are in Australia, she is Australian) she is the only thing i have in life and she is going. Please im just looking for some support from this community ( going through the same). I saw a councilor recently but it didn't help, i think that just people like me, experiencing that horrible disease and situation can understand. Hearing and sharing our stories , how you cope and how you get through it day by day would help me. She hasn't much left, i'm devastated and i'm already experiencing bereavement.
Thanks
my partner was diagnosed with Als in march, she is 48, her mum passed at the age of 43 when she was 17 looking after her along with her dad. The trauma of that loss and the fear of getting that illness has been there for all these years and now its happening to her. she has deteriorated very quickly and now is in a wheelchair, she has lost everything, speech,...totally disabled. ive been the main caregiver on my own since this started and now i feel completely lost, scared, burnout. i dont have any purpose in life, any drive, any dream, she is all my life, the love of my life, i don't have my family around ( im european and we are in Australia, she is Australian) she is the only thing i have in life and she is going. Please im just looking for some support from this community ( going through the same). I saw a councilor recently but it didn't help, i think that just people like me, experiencing that horrible disease and situation can understand. Hearing and sharing our stories , how you cope and how you get through it day by day would help me. She hasn't much left, i'm devastated and i'm already experiencing bereavement.
Thanks