Hey everyone, thank you so very much for the encouragement and insight. I hadn't thought of taking a notebook, but did consider borrowing a pocket tape recorder. Perhaps I'll do both. My oldest brother is also going along for the clinic visit. He has not been to any of the doctor appointments, but at present lives with our folks and so he sees first hand what is happening, so I think it will be great having him along. From all I am reading in various places, it seems a large percentage of PALS have the muscle twitching. I've not seen it with Mom myself, but did ask my father and brother about it... both said YES she is, although Mom seems to be in denial about her overall condition. She claims no twitching, that she is moving her legs on purpose.
I've not registered her with the local ALS or MDA, never thought of it. We already have a wheel chair (not power) that was actualy mine, spent 6 months not walking - that's another story for another day. I will register her with them however, as an appropriate bed and I'm certain other equipment would be a great idea.
What REAL questions or things should we ask during our visit? I've not a clue where to begin. Have been trying to study the terminology, getting myself plenty confused.
As for the breathing issues and carbon.... Told my father that part of her sleeping during the day like this is because she is not resting well to begin with and then my own thought process led me to thinking that perhaps her breathing pattern is not up to par... lacking oxygen and too much carbon.
Not sure how she will feel about the bipap - is that something she would only sleep with or use throughout the day? I know... not knowing her exact condition its' hard to say. I'm just not sure if they are something to be used long-term or meant for shorter term use.
I'm trying to keep on top of the medical end of things and Mom seems to be trusting me to do that, so the pressure is on for me to do it right. I phoned Georgetown Univ. today to ask them what I could expect from the appointment. The assistant there said since this is her first visit, would be an evaluation and then he'd decide if e needed anything further and put in the orders. I may not hae posed the question right, but I'm still not certain if any additional testing that needs done would be handled then and there or if we're looking at making appointments and running up and down the road.
Typing all of that jsut made me think... I believe her insurance requires a referral for almost every specialist visit... so I better contact her GP and have them send the referral down so we don't get ourselves in a major insurance coverage bind.
You all mentioned the loss of weight... My mother was a very large woman, our family are all large fraed and bigger than we ought to be... She had been trying to lose weight and was doing so successfully for hte past year to year and a half. Losing nearly 100 pounds in that time. She would not eat breakfast or lunch and onlya small dinner... depriving her herself of way too much. I truly had not given much thought to how that affected her dentures fitting. She only has difficulty with the bottom ones.
When all of this got started, I was concerned for her overall heath because she was not moving as usual, speaking like usual or even acting like herself. She had lost al that weight and was getting around worse than ever before. Walking bent over trouble holding her head up and complaining of shortness of breath, chest pains, etc.
The whole situation was complicated, as we were viewing most of it as side effects of a bad fall she took at work back in May. The doctors did stress tests, blood tests, etc... no results. In December, after I learned she was having difficulty swallowing (which she now says started in Oct/Nov, but didn't tell anyone), we were sent to a neurologist, who ordered blood work and an MRI which she did not get because she was choking too much to ay down for it. The neuro said "bring her back when she's better". I was furious... got the family doc back on it, he referred us to a different neuro who then did a nerve conduction study and forgive me, but I forget the other test name...
He compared the results to a previous study done a couple of months prior and given his overall evaluation of her on that day said the muscle wasting and nerve conditions were very bad and very serious and he made the initial diagnosis of the ALS.
I know it is only opinion... but how much detail should my mother know? I'd love to protect her from it all, but reality is she'll be the one whose body is living it. I just don't want her to be scared too soon if that makes sense.
I'm sorry for rambling on, obviously many thoughts are buzzing about my head at present.
Hugs to you all and thanks again,
Mary