slmm97
New member
- Joined
- Sep 23, 2007
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- 3
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- Friend was DX
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- Country
- US
- State
- Washington
- City
- Spokane
First post. I can't tell you how happy I was to find this forum.
My boyfriend's mother was diagnosed with ALS about a year ago. He and I have been dating for more than two years. We're in our 20s.
In spring, his mother is going to be moving in with him, and he'll become her primary caregiver. I realize this move will change our relationship completely, although I doubt I've fully grasped the complexities of it. We're going to go through hell in the next few years, I know. I've also considered the possibility he'll want to break off the relationship because all his emotional efforts will be spent taking care of his mom.
For as long as we're together, though, I'm hoping I can get some advice on ways to keep my boyfriend from burning out. He's the kind of person who will feel guilty if he takes time away from his mother. I just want to be able to do what I can to give him some breaks every now and then.
My boyfriend's mother was diagnosed with ALS about a year ago. He and I have been dating for more than two years. We're in our 20s.
In spring, his mother is going to be moving in with him, and he'll become her primary caregiver. I realize this move will change our relationship completely, although I doubt I've fully grasped the complexities of it. We're going to go through hell in the next few years, I know. I've also considered the possibility he'll want to break off the relationship because all his emotional efforts will be spent taking care of his mom.
For as long as we're together, though, I'm hoping I can get some advice on ways to keep my boyfriend from burning out. He's the kind of person who will feel guilty if he takes time away from his mother. I just want to be able to do what I can to give him some breaks every now and then.