tmg16
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- Joined
- Jan 7, 2016
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- 36
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 12/2015
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- US
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- MN
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- City
I'm not sure if this is an appropriate thread. I am not a caregiver yet but my mom was diagnosed in January 2016. Her decline has been pretty quick with rapid deterioration in respiratory function. She is on the Trilogy 24/7 and is completely tube fed. She is weak but still mobile and spends most of her time in her bed or reclined in a lift chair, she is most comfortable reclined. She is still taking care of herself for the most part. She lives with my sister and I live about 10 minutes away. She is starting to have difficulty with taking care of herself. She used to use the syringe for feeding but can no longer manage it so my sister sets her up with the gravity bag several times a day. At her request, I started looking into home health services and after research here and elsewhere came to the conclusion that it wouldn't be covered by insurance. My mom can pay for the services if needed but given her respiratory function, I asked if she could get a hospice referral. Her ALS doc is putting the order in. She will be getting a loaner pwc from the ALS Association and I think that will be sufficient. She really doesn't leave the house and it doesn't seem like she really needs the pwc. I figure if it turns out she uses the heck out of it and wants a better one, we can leave hospice to get one but that the most important thing is to get the home health started so she can become comfortable with the service before she is totally dependent. My question is - am I missing anything? Does this seem reasonable? I feel like we haven't done a great job keeping ahead of the progression here and I don't want to make any mistakes. My mom is really independent and fiercely trying to maintain that as long as possible and I suspect, not "impose" on my sister and I to her detriment.