Markbreton
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Apr 17, 2006
- Messages
- 102
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 02/2006
- Country
- CA
- State
- Ontario
- City
- Smiths Falls
I've been taking care of Tammy now for over 3 years. She has required help with everything now for about 6 months. Althought our insurance covers home support and they are here most of the time I've never taken a break..... Earlier this week, Tammys pej, not peg, was blocked and all attempts to unblock it were in vain. This required another trip to the hospital. There have been several in the last few weeks for various things...like pneuononia. Anyway I had a breakdown and started yelling and cursing the Doctors and everything else life had to offer. Unfortunately one of the nurses was here and reported this back to her office. Needless to say they, the management staff who are all seasoned RN's, came over to meet with me almost immediately and told me that I needed to get away from Tammy for awhile (respite) so I can recharge my batteries. Because she is on a vent, peg tube, cath, etc. they would like to place her in a hospital for a week or so. I know its the right thing to do but I feel like I'm abandoning her. She cried when we discussed this and we found out that she feels safe when I'm around as I've always been there. (All the help we get is provided by RN's.) Oh I forgot to mention that the nurse that was here when I blew up does not want to return. I'm so torn on what to do...if I don't get a break I'm afraid I'll end up in hospital. If I do send her to hospital then she will feel like I'm abandoning her. Our Dr. is coming over this afternoon to discuss this with us.......oh boy like sucks right now!
Mark
Mark