k1mmar
New member
- Joined
- Oct 5, 2009
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- Reason
- Friend was DX
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- US
- State
- ny
- City
- Farmingville
Hi there. I have recently reconnected with a friend from high school who has been living with ALS for five years now. He is only 41, and is in a nursing home. He has a trach and is totally paralyzed. He does text and has use of a computer, so we have been talking every day. Even though I haven't seen him in over 20 years, we have a connection and I want to go see him. And he wants to see me too.
I am ashamed to admit that I am a bit nervous. I just don't know what to expect. I know he is obviously not well, but the communication is what is making me nervous. What if I get there an he's not in the chair? How will I talk to him? Should I hug him? That might sound stupid, but will I hurt him? Can I bring him anything? I think the world of him and just want this to be a nice visit. Please, any advice would be so appreciated.
Thank you so much.
Kim
I am ashamed to admit that I am a bit nervous. I just don't know what to expect. I know he is obviously not well, but the communication is what is making me nervous. What if I get there an he's not in the chair? How will I talk to him? Should I hug him? That might sound stupid, but will I hurt him? Can I bring him anything? I think the world of him and just want this to be a nice visit. Please, any advice would be so appreciated.
Thank you so much.
Kim