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Robin - I wanted to comment on the process of getting the tube installed. When my PALS had hers inserted, she wasn't using her BiPAP on a full-time basis... BUT, she did need it to be comfortable when laying down. Aware of this, I brought her BiPAP with us (her Trilogy was able to operate on battery). The hospital nurses said, "Oh she can't use that during surgery... but we'll give her oxygen." I'd already played that game with hospital staff a year earlier while attempting to get Darcey's MRI done with oxygen while laying prone. She couldn't breath... and ultimately we had to cancel that visit and find an MRI that allowed her to sit upright during the process (this was before she'd been diagnosed with ALS and had been prescribed a BiPAP).
With the "she can't use that" proclamation, a look of fear and a silent plea of "help me, please" screamed from Darcey's face and eyes. I tried to explain what the BiPAP did and why it was important for her to use it. But they were adamant that it would not go into surgery with her. I was surprised (even shocked) at how contentious the back and forth was becoming. So I ended the stalemate with "then you'll need to get the anesthesiologist in here to talk to me. if I don't hear directly from the doctor's mouth that he'll allow her BiPAP during the procedure, she's not leaving this room... except for us to go home."
Ultimately, the doctor did come in to talk with me because I wouldn't let them take Darcey out of the room. I explained to him the need for the BiPAP and he agreed that he'd allow its use during the PEG's insertion. It was the first time (of many times) that I had to stand up to medical staff for their insistence on doing something I knew wasn't right and proper.
They wheeled Darcey back in after surgery. She wasn't using the BiPAP, but it was hanging from the back of the bed. And because she was sitting at about a 45 degree angle, she really didn't need it. By this point, the nurses were not particularly pleased with me and quickly left the room, closing the door behind them. Darcey was awake and was talking to me when she began to have problems breathing. Of course the nurses were gone and I didn't dare leave Darcey to track them down. So I moved behind the bed, turned on the Trilogy and quickly put her full face mask on... which immediately helped her to begin to breath a bit easier.
I'm sure that Laurie could explain what happened, better than I can. But it had something to do with her coming off the anesthesia while also having impaired lung function. Again, it was a situation that the hospital staff should have been aware of and monitored for... but they did not. Five minutes later, Darcey was feeling better and was okay to remove her mask. But for a bit there, it had been a bit scary for both of us!
So... I don't want to put you on edge... but I do want you to be aware. If your husband uses a BiPAP, I would absolutely encourage you to have it with you. And I want you to know that you are your PALS best advocate... and that sometimes, you may actually have a better grasp of a situation than the medical staff that "should" know better.
I'm excited for both of you. It is always good to have options... and the PEG gives you more options when they might be needed... whether immediately or months down the road.
My best...
Jim
With the "she can't use that" proclamation, a look of fear and a silent plea of "help me, please" screamed from Darcey's face and eyes. I tried to explain what the BiPAP did and why it was important for her to use it. But they were adamant that it would not go into surgery with her. I was surprised (even shocked) at how contentious the back and forth was becoming. So I ended the stalemate with "then you'll need to get the anesthesiologist in here to talk to me. if I don't hear directly from the doctor's mouth that he'll allow her BiPAP during the procedure, she's not leaving this room... except for us to go home."
Ultimately, the doctor did come in to talk with me because I wouldn't let them take Darcey out of the room. I explained to him the need for the BiPAP and he agreed that he'd allow its use during the PEG's insertion. It was the first time (of many times) that I had to stand up to medical staff for their insistence on doing something I knew wasn't right and proper.
They wheeled Darcey back in after surgery. She wasn't using the BiPAP, but it was hanging from the back of the bed. And because she was sitting at about a 45 degree angle, she really didn't need it. By this point, the nurses were not particularly pleased with me and quickly left the room, closing the door behind them. Darcey was awake and was talking to me when she began to have problems breathing. Of course the nurses were gone and I didn't dare leave Darcey to track them down. So I moved behind the bed, turned on the Trilogy and quickly put her full face mask on... which immediately helped her to begin to breath a bit easier.
I'm sure that Laurie could explain what happened, better than I can. But it had something to do with her coming off the anesthesia while also having impaired lung function. Again, it was a situation that the hospital staff should have been aware of and monitored for... but they did not. Five minutes later, Darcey was feeling better and was okay to remove her mask. But for a bit there, it had been a bit scary for both of us!
So... I don't want to put you on edge... but I do want you to be aware. If your husband uses a BiPAP, I would absolutely encourage you to have it with you. And I want you to know that you are your PALS best advocate... and that sometimes, you may actually have a better grasp of a situation than the medical staff that "should" know better.
I'm excited for both of you. It is always good to have options... and the PEG gives you more options when they might be needed... whether immediately or months down the road.
My best...
Jim