I owe all this to you CALS who took the time to chime in. I would love to share details with you all but I don't think it would be allowed on this forum. I have gotten 200% more "intimacy" than I had even hoped for. Sometimes when my feet are swollen she will massage them and then say, "my your feet are like ice, I need to climb in bed with you and warm those feet up". Well, let me tell you she warms way more than my feet. And the kisses and hugs and touching are every single day. And Tillie, every single morning I leave her a message on my iPad, telling her how beautiful she, how sexy she is, how intelligent and kind and strong she is. Something positive everyday. I know this won't last when things get bad but boy will I have a smile on my face when it's my time to move on remembering these times with my wife!
I don't know how to repay you all but I pray whatever negative situation you may find yourself in that a group like all of you steps up and gives you the remedy.
Vince