Barbie
Extremely helpful member
- Joined
- Dec 29, 2007
- Messages
- 2,681
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 01/2007
- Country
- US
- State
- FL
- City
- orlando
Need some advice on doctors for my Pals. He doesn't' go to the ALS clinic anymore. It is in Tampa and we are in Orlando so that is 1 1/2 hours away. and when we do go, it seems like just a big waste of time. they cant do the breathing test on him because he can't get his mouth closed on the tester and they do not have the mask or any other way of testing him. the speech therapist , ot and pt are old news for us after 7 years. Neuro looks as him and says well, you are doing ok. last time we were there, hubby and neuro have an argument over a peg and bi-pap (husband doesn't think they are necessary yet and doc does). When my husband was constipated badly I called them and they said to call our GP.
So we started just going to the GP. and he really seems like he is too busy to care, and he doesn't' really know anything about ALS. in fact, we went on Friday and he asked my husband when he was diagnosed with MS...(we have been seeing this doc for about 10 years) and he wants us to come in for every little thing which is not easy and will not jus prescribe over the phone or even take phone calls.
Grrr! a month ago we went in to get the script for a new chair. doc insisted on blood work for my husband. I took him to the hospital lab and had it done. then I had to bring him back in Friday to go over the results...which the doc said "all fine" what? no details? nothing but "fine" still don't have the paperwork finished for the chair... said to eat more. really? doc doesn't even know hubby has swallowing issues . prescribes some elder tonic to increase his appetite... which is really just a multivitamin like Geritol but more expensive. I talke to him about husband pee and sleep issues. he didn't even ask if husband was in any pain (he is not). did not address the sleep issue. prescribes flowmax to help with prostate. I give it to husband last nite and this morning he is so dried up. he could not breathe thru his nose it was so dry and clogged. I hope that is just an adjustment to the flowmax.
I think we have to find a new doctor for him.
I don't know where to start. there is a different ALS clinic in Tampa that maybe we could go to. but still that travel would be very difficult for him. and still hard if he is sick or has an immediate issue. our hospice doesn't have palliative care and they kicked us off last year. ( he wasn't dying fast enough they said). a local neuro does not seem to be the way to go, but a GP doesn't either. What is an internist? would that be better? is there anyone out there in my area who has a recommendation?
So we started just going to the GP. and he really seems like he is too busy to care, and he doesn't' really know anything about ALS. in fact, we went on Friday and he asked my husband when he was diagnosed with MS...(we have been seeing this doc for about 10 years) and he wants us to come in for every little thing which is not easy and will not jus prescribe over the phone or even take phone calls.
Grrr! a month ago we went in to get the script for a new chair. doc insisted on blood work for my husband. I took him to the hospital lab and had it done. then I had to bring him back in Friday to go over the results...which the doc said "all fine" what? no details? nothing but "fine" still don't have the paperwork finished for the chair... said to eat more. really? doc doesn't even know hubby has swallowing issues . prescribes some elder tonic to increase his appetite... which is really just a multivitamin like Geritol but more expensive. I talke to him about husband pee and sleep issues. he didn't even ask if husband was in any pain (he is not). did not address the sleep issue. prescribes flowmax to help with prostate. I give it to husband last nite and this morning he is so dried up. he could not breathe thru his nose it was so dry and clogged. I hope that is just an adjustment to the flowmax.
I think we have to find a new doctor for him.
I don't know where to start. there is a different ALS clinic in Tampa that maybe we could go to. but still that travel would be very difficult for him. and still hard if he is sick or has an immediate issue. our hospice doesn't have palliative care and they kicked us off last year. ( he wasn't dying fast enough they said). a local neuro does not seem to be the way to go, but a GP doesn't either. What is an internist? would that be better? is there anyone out there in my area who has a recommendation?