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There is a sticky on second opinions/ first clinic visit in the general section that you might want to look at. It is one of the labeled important post.
Clinics run differently. You may see everyone every visit or you might only see the people you need. I only see the doctor and the PT because that is how my clinic works. Take a sweater, drinks and snacks. Some clinics provide these. Others do not.
Find out who to contact with questions and how. My clinic prefers email for non urgent matters and I have a primary nurse. Collect business cards.
Your clinical questions will depend on your situation. Is your diagnosis solid? Do you need any confirming tests? Do you need to talk about equipment ( power chair, bipap?). Do you need to discuss a feeding tube? Voice banking or a consult for communication assistance? Do you need OT for a home assessment?
I make a list of questions and print it out. I try to refine it so it is not too long
Hope this helps a bit. Please feel free to ask questions. There is a ton of information in the important post stickies and in the threads. The search function can help a lot if you have a specific issue. Don’t try to read it all at once but take what you need
