Hey Richard,
What you said about these people whose parents are diagnosed with ALS at the age of 70 or 80 is something I have thought before too. Then I felt so guilty for feeling that way. I know that they are going through the same pain that I am, even though their parent is 20-30 years older than my dad. It is hard not to get a little jealous though, isn't it? I find myself looking at elderly couples, and wishing that my parents could reach that age together. I try to focus on what my dad still has left, and not what he has lost. It is still tough though. My dad is 52, which doesn't seem very old at all. I do feel so lucky that he has a wonderful wife, 3 grown kids, and 2 grandchildren. But, one of my brothers has not been married yet, and I can't help but wonder if dad will get to see that day. I also want to have more children, and I want them to know my dad. I don't know what my family's future holds, but I know that we are very blessed to have each other. Life sure can be crazy.
Dana