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- Lost a loved one
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- 05/2013
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@ Pkmado - I met yesterday with a CALS for lunch.
I told a very detailed and clear account of how Chris passed and asked her to tell her husband and that I would happily talk to him about it also.
I think it is really important because Chris feared dying so much - I'm still not sure if he feared the time of death or 'after' death, but it was a huge fear. For a long time at first he feared he would die choking. This actually rarely happens - but aspiration pneumonias are common.
Anyways, I really felt it is important to talk about the ending. It can be made peaceful and become something that comforts us as CALS afterwards.
Debbie - how are you both doing now? Still holding your hand xx
I told a very detailed and clear account of how Chris passed and asked her to tell her husband and that I would happily talk to him about it also.
I think it is really important because Chris feared dying so much - I'm still not sure if he feared the time of death or 'after' death, but it was a huge fear. For a long time at first he feared he would die choking. This actually rarely happens - but aspiration pneumonias are common.
Anyways, I really felt it is important to talk about the ending. It can be made peaceful and become something that comforts us as CALS afterwards.
Debbie - how are you both doing now? Still holding your hand xx