Nanders
Active member
- Joined
- Nov 14, 2019
- Messages
- 30
- Reason
- PALS
- Diagnosis
- 11/2019
- Country
- US
- State
- AZ
- City
- Chandler
Hey Everyone.. I know I’m new to the group.. but it saddens me to see my ‘new friends/family’ reacting to each other this way.
OUR decisions, feelings & reactions are just about the only certain thing we can have ‘control’ much in this process.. no matter what title we have.
Depending on circumstances they can change from moment to moment.
I’ve been watching my youngest son, who still isn’t talking to me about my Dx came by to pick up the family tree ornaments yesterday & sent me a pic later of the decorated tree.
Im devastated that I can no longer put up the holiday decor, cook all of ‘moms’ famous dishes or help prep TDay next week.
Ive considered not going because I can’t even cut my own food and flip it frequently.
But then the next minute I think it’ll be ok.. it is what it is.. & I go back to tears & not wanting to celebrate at all.
To be honest I’d really rather be with all of you.. because you get it... all if it, good, bad & everything in between!
Tolerance, respect & love.That’s what we all want & need.
Love & hugs to everyone!!
❤ Nancy
OUR decisions, feelings & reactions are just about the only certain thing we can have ‘control’ much in this process.. no matter what title we have.
Depending on circumstances they can change from moment to moment.
I’ve been watching my youngest son, who still isn’t talking to me about my Dx came by to pick up the family tree ornaments yesterday & sent me a pic later of the decorated tree.
Im devastated that I can no longer put up the holiday decor, cook all of ‘moms’ famous dishes or help prep TDay next week.
Ive considered not going because I can’t even cut my own food and flip it frequently.
But then the next minute I think it’ll be ok.. it is what it is.. & I go back to tears & not wanting to celebrate at all.
To be honest I’d really rather be with all of you.. because you get it... all if it, good, bad & everything in between!
Tolerance, respect & love.That’s what we all want & need.
Love & hugs to everyone!!
❤ Nancy