mndireland
Distinguished member
- Joined
- May 17, 2008
- Messages
- 123
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 10/2007
- Country
- IE
- State
- Ireland
- City
- Dublin
Linda,
I know and understand your situation, mine is very similar only one of my sisters is literally a 5 minute drive and the other 20mins away, but they have kids to feed and get ready for school etc, and obviously I dont have a life and thats why I look after mom!
Well I dont anymore, but to be honest, what I do have is much more rewarding than a social life, out in pubs and clubs just dont come close. I wake up everyday grateful if Mum had a good night and know that we can go out and do some shopping and lunch (girlie things), and on a bad day, Im just glad that im there with her and doing all I can to help. Just remember these are the days you will remember and you will never feel guilty or wishing youd done more, and its not about what or how they feel but how you feel, and you are getting so much more out of this than these could ever hope for.
It does anger me sometimes, and there is nothing we can do about that. And im just dreading the day of a funeral, and some of these so called loved ones will be crying at a graveside beside me, as I feel my anger will definately burst!
But I also believe in Karma, and what goes around comes around. You will live a good and very fulfilling life, can everybody say that?
I know and understand your situation, mine is very similar only one of my sisters is literally a 5 minute drive and the other 20mins away, but they have kids to feed and get ready for school etc, and obviously I dont have a life and thats why I look after mom!
Well I dont anymore, but to be honest, what I do have is much more rewarding than a social life, out in pubs and clubs just dont come close. I wake up everyday grateful if Mum had a good night and know that we can go out and do some shopping and lunch (girlie things), and on a bad day, Im just glad that im there with her and doing all I can to help. Just remember these are the days you will remember and you will never feel guilty or wishing youd done more, and its not about what or how they feel but how you feel, and you are getting so much more out of this than these could ever hope for.
It does anger me sometimes, and there is nothing we can do about that. And im just dreading the day of a funeral, and some of these so called loved ones will be crying at a graveside beside me, as I feel my anger will definately burst!
But I also believe in Karma, and what goes around comes around. You will live a good and very fulfilling life, can everybody say that?