Jdeanda
Member
- Joined
- Jul 30, 2021
- Messages
- 22
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 07/2021
- Country
- US
- State
- TX
- City
- corpus christi
Good Morning, my fellow caregivers. It has been one hell of a month so far and its only the 9th. We went to an ALS clinic in SA and got alot of information that was real helpful, but my dad already said he doesn't want to ever go again. That he knows what's going to happen and doesn't need anyone telling him anything. I must say he has declined pretty rapidly. We've had to take him to the urgent care the other night because of severe constipation. My dad is so exhausted. His voice is just about gone and he's twitching more in his hands and feet. He can still get around but not for long because he gets SOB. He cried to me last night that all he ever asked for in life was when it was his time to go, all he wanted was to go quick and not suffer or have us suffer. that broke me into pieces. He also said he really does not want to see anymore drs that there isn't any point. Are we able to do that? just let him be and not see anymore drs?