Dear All, thank you. It's been said before but you are the only ones who have an insight what all of this means- emotionally and practically. Yesterday was chaotic, meaningless visits from people who can't do anything for us and like to 'chat'. I finally managed to book a sitter privately so got about 5 hrs of sleep. Marie. Curie are hit and miss Rachel, we are due 2 visits per week but lucky if get 2 per month. I will ask about Buccal you mention. Comments by friends and family, bar a couple, are draining me and making me feel empty. I also feel guilt, for the fact that I will have some kind of life and L is suffering. XD