Hi TBear,
It's the particular hospitals (2) that he went and the individuals he was seen by that so completely turned us off, the manner and really, there was no concern to speak of, or any advice. The bills, however, (in huge amounts) came very promptly...We live far a way from any centers and for now, there is nothing we can do. He is not angry at the messengers for his illness. But, depending where you go, in the US (perhaps it's everywhere) one is not at all asured of actual care-on the medical or human level.
On the cramps, such as you speak woke up your wife, yes, he has had them no less than 3 years ago, but we assigned them as being work-related. They probably were not. Those have gone away almost entirely, perhaps due to the number of antioxidants/supplements/vitamins he has been on since diagn. My mom gives him daily massages as a preventive measure, and as additional muscle stimulation. When he has "bad"days, he gets some stiffness if stretching, but seldom cramps. Depression seems to bring the worst of everything on. And no matter how hard he tries, these dark days days are numerous. As is today.
It's the particular hospitals (2) that he went and the individuals he was seen by that so completely turned us off, the manner and really, there was no concern to speak of, or any advice. The bills, however, (in huge amounts) came very promptly...We live far a way from any centers and for now, there is nothing we can do. He is not angry at the messengers for his illness. But, depending where you go, in the US (perhaps it's everywhere) one is not at all asured of actual care-on the medical or human level.
On the cramps, such as you speak woke up your wife, yes, he has had them no less than 3 years ago, but we assigned them as being work-related. They probably were not. Those have gone away almost entirely, perhaps due to the number of antioxidants/supplements/vitamins he has been on since diagn. My mom gives him daily massages as a preventive measure, and as additional muscle stimulation. When he has "bad"days, he gets some stiffness if stretching, but seldom cramps. Depression seems to bring the worst of everything on. And no matter how hard he tries, these dark days days are numerous. As is today.