Chase_Corin
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Nov 24, 2010
- Messages
- 135
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 11/2010
- Country
- CA
- State
- On
- City
- Perth, Ontario
I guess I am just venting, on top of the not being able to taste anything my dad recently recived the electronic communication device of his choice an iPAD, that sits on our kitchen table.
Does he use it? Yes, to check his e-mail and lottery numbers
Does he use it for the purpose inteded? NO
Can we understand him when he speaks? NO
I love my dad but he used to grumple answers when he could speak and now that his speach is getting worse it's like 'reading the russian alphabet hard' trying to understand him. Then he gets frustrated if he has to repeat himself. UGH! I guess maybe I am just tired but we have given him the tools to communicate with us why is he so resistant to use them.
I have even programmed sentences that he uses all the time into the damn thing and he still dosn't use it. Heck he can even call the dog with the thing but he would trather bang his cane against the banister to get the dog's attention.
I don't know am I the deranged person in the room or am I just assumeing too much by wanting my dad to be able to communicate clearly with people. I don't want his wishes to go unheard and I don't want him to feel like an outsider in a conversation. I guess I just feel that by not useing this ability he is going to get taken advantage of or his wants and needs may get lost in the shuffle.
Does he use it? Yes, to check his e-mail and lottery numbers
Does he use it for the purpose inteded? NO
Can we understand him when he speaks? NO
I love my dad but he used to grumple answers when he could speak and now that his speach is getting worse it's like 'reading the russian alphabet hard' trying to understand him. Then he gets frustrated if he has to repeat himself. UGH! I guess maybe I am just tired but we have given him the tools to communicate with us why is he so resistant to use them.
I have even programmed sentences that he uses all the time into the damn thing and he still dosn't use it. Heck he can even call the dog with the thing but he would trather bang his cane against the banister to get the dog's attention.
I don't know am I the deranged person in the room or am I just assumeing too much by wanting my dad to be able to communicate clearly with people. I don't want his wishes to go unheard and I don't want him to feel like an outsider in a conversation. I guess I just feel that by not useing this ability he is going to get taken advantage of or his wants and needs may get lost in the shuffle.