I have three weeks left of a vacation, I'm beginning to stress a little about what will happen when I go back to work at the end of the month. He's not completely incapacitated, he can still use the restroom, and he showers (every third day or so), although I insist he's not alone when he showers. I read through the recent post on schedules, and I'm thinking that we don't need home care just yet, he just needs someone to cook for him, and keep him company, and his children should be able to manage that for now. Lots of worries and lots of decisions to make. I think I need to start planning a daily schedule for everyone to follow. Sigh...