I, too, am very appreciative of the information and support provided by this forum during our ALS "journey". Did it make it "easier"? A resounding NO. Did it make it more understandable? YES, indeed.
Understanding the (general) progression of ALS, though individual the actual path may be, allows the caregiver to process new challenges and events without daunting surprise and ensuing panic. Energy and emotion will thus be conserved for the more important task of sustaining our PALS' quality of life, to the extent possible. There will still be "surprises" and (false) alarms (i.e., "is that a sign of dementia?"), but that is why this forum exists.
This understanding also allows the caregiver to better interact with medical (e.g., at ALS Clinic) and healthcare (OTs, PTs, hospice, etc.) personnel on behalf of their PALS. It enhances one's confidence in asking the difficult questions that some medical people are themselves reluctant to address - after all, everyone knows what the ultimate outcome will be.
In summary, as difficult as our 2 yr, 9 month "journey" was, it is hard to imagine that journey without benefit of this forum.
Ken