affected
Guru status reached
- Joined
- Apr 26, 2013
- Messages
- 16,096
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 05/2013
- Country
- OZ
- State
- AU
- City
- lala land
Oh Mary, I can feel your exhaustion.
TBH I'm disappointed that your son and wife came and you made the meal - can they step up and help?
I didn't get real help from Chris' adult kids so I ask with full realisation that doesn't always help.
Can the caretaker not get him up alone since you do it alone the other days, so that you actually get a break?
I can imagine you can barely even think of what will help now, your brain just needs to stop and your body needs to rest.
I'm so sorry you are at this point, this disease is beyond cruel.
TBH I'm disappointed that your son and wife came and you made the meal - can they step up and help?
I didn't get real help from Chris' adult kids so I ask with full realisation that doesn't always help.
Can the caretaker not get him up alone since you do it alone the other days, so that you actually get a break?
I can imagine you can barely even think of what will help now, your brain just needs to stop and your body needs to rest.
I'm so sorry you are at this point, this disease is beyond cruel.