.............................and Barry , just how did you all put this together that you are related ? (distant in law). How did the subject of a cousin of your niece's husband 's mom come up? Well no matter, she is flying 2300 miles to see you and walk with you in the ALS Walk , she can be related to you any way she wants ! Good for you ...............I cant wait for you to tell us all about the visit and the walk ! CATE